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How to Say Friend in French: Ami, Copain, and the Petit Ami Trap

Friend in French is ami/amie - but petit ami means boyfriend, not "little friend." Learn the full friendship vocabulary ladder and avoid the trap.

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Friend in French is un ami (male) or une amie (female), pronounced /ah-MEE/. Careful: petit ami and petite amie don’t mean “little friend” - they mean boyfriend and girlfriend. For “buddy,” French uses copain/copine or the slang pote.

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Friend in French is un ami (male) or une amie (female), pronounced /ah-MEE/. Careful: petit ami and petite amie don’t mean “little friend” - they mean boyfriend and girlfriend. For “buddy,” French uses copain/copine or the slang pote.

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Ami / amie: the standard word

/ah-MEE/, gender pair: un ami / une amie. Note: mon ami(e) should be used carefully - see the trap below.

The petit ami trap

Watch outpetit ami = boyfriend, petite amie = girlfriend - NOT “little friend.” To describe an actual young friend, French would use context differently rather than this exact phrase.

The friendship ladder

WordMeaning
copain / copinecasual friend/buddy - also boyfriend/girlfriend depending on context, same trap as petit ami
poteslang buddy/mate
meilleur(e) ami(e)best friend
camaradeclassmate/comrade - more formal-ish

For pote and the wider casual vocabulary universe it belongs to, see French slang words.

[Visual - infographic] “petit ami” crossed out as “little friend,” correct “boyfriend” gloss highlighted below. ALT: « Warning about the petit ami trap in French meaning boyfriend not little friend ».

Describing friendship

C’est mon meilleur ami (he’s my best friend), on est amis depuis… (we’ve been friends since…).

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Does petit ami mean little friend?

No - it means boyfriend (petite amie = girlfriend).

What's the difference between ami and copain?

Roughly interchangeable for "friend," though copain/copine can also mean boyfriend/girlfriend depending on context - same trap as petit ami.

What does pote mean?

Casual slang for "buddy" or "mate."

How do you say best friend in French?

mon/ma meilleur(e) ami(e).

Is camarade the same as ami?

Not quite - camarade leans toward classmate or comrade, more formal or political in tone.

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